After councilling on Friday, I have decided its time, time to drop my male name and start using my feminine name.
Friends and (wife's) family are happy to do as I wish but I have concerns about work as it will affect not only people I work with but customers.
I think I need to confirm if there are gender policies at work before I say anything at work.
On a different note, how is my marriage seen in a court of law being a woman married to a woman... Especially as ( as far as I can find out ) same sex marriage is still a no no...