My secret is out. Wife has told 2 of her friends and her Dr.
One of her friends said she considered f2m transition when she was young so I think that helped.
Her Dr said I should make an appointment with a male Dr.
I think I need to see how this appointment with chrysalis ( if any ) comes out.
Becca, I understand what your saying. I'm having the same arguments I mean discussions with Helen, who has been a great help.
She keeps telling me things which I already know but choose to ignore, and forces me to think about how I'm approaching this.
Please don't stop commenting, as I expect you both are saying virtually what any Dr or councillor would say, and its making me think about things, preparing me. Thanks
I won't but it's hard as i am trying not to offend especially when feelings are so deeply held. You just need to make sure that the Tranny Euphoria (and apologies for the term - it's just something thats often used on Roses and Angels) doesnt leave you out on a limb with your nearest and dearest alienated.
ReplyDeleteI think that your wife having some people to talk to is a good thing - more so that they are not necessarily hostile to the situation.
I am not sure if you have an idea of where you are going but if you think there is a chance that you may want more than a the occasional chance to dress then a visit to gte Dr has got to be the right move. The NHS can be very slow - I took me about 3 months before I saw a local counsellor and then if you seek specialist treatment you could wait for another 6-8 months. It's a long long time if you gave decided things need to change.